I feel insecure, bitter, ugly and sometimes even wonder whether my skin color/ethnicity has had anything to do with my rejection.I’m quite a shy (albeit large framed) guy, and can’t bring myself to act overly macho and take it on the chin.In fact, people over 50 are one of the fastest growing segments.“It’s a product of the growing normalcy of using social media apps,” says Moira Weigel, author of “Labor of Love: The Invention of Online Dating” (Farrar, Straus & Giroux, 2016).It also doesn’t mean putting up with any kind of rude or inappropriate behavior.It means handling the opinions, pressures, and attitudes of others with grace, and coming across as comfortable in your own skin.
Just look at how many people seeking dates or mates are flocking to matchmaking sites and apps.
Naturally, a man doesn’t need to show them all to get the attention of a great woman…but if he manages to show her just a few, chances drastically increase that she’ll start “feeling it” for him.
1) An “Easy-Going” Attitude Listen…“easy-going” does not mean being so laid back when you first meet a woman that you’re practically asleep.
Even your body language communicates it…a confident man will literally, physically “lay back,” leaning back while keeping his body open and facing forward when conversing.
A confident man also doesn’t obsess about what other people think or do.