Every divorce will affect the kids involved — and many times the initial reaction is one of shock, sadness, frustration, anger, or worry.
But kids also can come out of it better able to cope with stress, and many become more flexible, tolerant young adults.
I’m of a certain age so I need to prepare myself for turning a blind eye to any code amber / red actions and indications because people in this age group tend to be recently broken up / separated / divorced‘. There’s no easy answer to the question of what the ‘right time’ is for dating a separated or recently divorced person.What you have to keep in mind is that separated is still married until the divorce is finalised and that means that there’s likely to be emotional as well as legal ties.It would be handy if we could avoid the vulnerability that comes with doing the due diligence and taking appropriate action where needed.The plurality of experts agree that there's no [time] requirement; as soon as they'd like is just fine. Divorce is stressful and can take a lot out of you, especially your self-esteem. Still, while it's up to parents to use their best judgment about when to start dating again, there are some rules all divorcés should follow when it comes to revving up the romance again.